Note and apology: this is very cis/het because that was the situation I experienced. However, it might absolutely apply to any combination of marriers. It’s May as I write this, and we’re back into Wedding Season, full on. At wedding ceremonies emotions are high, and the adrenaline is pumping. The fight-flight-freeze-fawn response is lurking, ready…
Today we’re talking about vows – with a twist! When couples exchange vows at their wedding ceremony they say beautiful words to each other. However, more than that, they are giving their word to their spouse. It is HUGE. “Giving one’s word” is an oath, a sacred promise, a pledge, and an assurance. Just as…
Warning: There is LANGUAGE in this blog. I follow @thebridaltheory on Instagram. I really like the Wedding Truths they post. Number 67 says that vendors are good allies, and to be honest and open with them. Underlying that statement is that vendors are honourable and act with integrity. Today, I would like to spin that…
