CECILIA PENNER
Vancouver Island Wedding Lady
Guiding you from What to do? to I do!
Are you planning to get married? I can help with that!
Congratulations on deciding to marry!
As your wedding officiant, my job is two-fold: to represent you in the celebration of your love, and to fulfill the legal requirements of the province.
If you’re conventional, unconventional, typical, atypical, quirky, neurodivergent, alternative, or however else you identify as individuals and as a couple, trust that you will be embraced and honoured.
The Vancouver Island wedding scene offers many choices of vendors in all categories of wedding professionals. If you need recommendations, I am happy to offer some direction. (I also have lots of opinions about wedding-related stuff – but only if you ask!)
This website is primarily a home for my blog where I vent and rant and act as my own therapist. However, you can also find photos, links to my social media and details about how to book my services for a wedding.
THE BLOG
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CHILDREN AT WEDDINGS: PART 3
ABSOLUTELY, We’re including Kids! Sometimes having children at a wedding ceremony is absolutely the right thing to do. Again, you, as the marriers, have the right to decide. There really is only one reason to have children at your wedding: it will make…
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Children at Weddings Part 2: I Just Had To Stop
First of all, please understand that I have nothing against children. However, adults sometimes over-estimate their capacity to understand the significance of a wedding ceremony. Children don’t automatically know what appropriate behaviour is for that situation. Why do couples think it’s really important…
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CHILDREN AT WEDDINGS: Part 1
This is a loaded topic and will be covered in several blogs over time. First topic: couples who do not have any children themselves and do not include children in the invitation. Not for the ceremony, not for the dinner, not for the…
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